The love of a child – it's very light feeling and its miraculous effect often helps to cope with all the difficulties encountered in the way of education. Love gives strength and endurance, helps to forgive and instills in the heart hope for the best. However, it happens and so that love is not only a source of joy and happiness, but also all sorts of grief, challenges and even conflicts. Love in the proportions in which common sense disappears, and is an excess of parental love to the child often becomes almost harmful than its weakness. This love is called giperopekoy. One of the most common forms of expression is an attempt to protect giperopeki Child of problems and worries of this life. It would seem a good intention, but it leads to the most unpleasant consequences. It happens that a child in a natural burst of adult role models is attempting to do along with them that – either at home, for example, wash dishes, set the table or bring a bag from the store.

If parents do not appreciate such "care" and the baby was removed from his "too heavy for him" work (which indeed they could have done together), then the child will learn in the future that the heavy lifting usually make mom and dad, and stop to offer assistance. Huge giperopekoy is injured when the child is trying to establish his "personal" life and makes the first attempts to display independence. For example, adults do not help to do your homework and do it for a child or not allowing him to make himself a sandwich just because it may cause injury. The thing is that too is a fine line between the fence of the child until it has a daunting and outright denial of its independence. Every parent should be able to feel its weight and balance of child matters, imparting to it a sense of responsibility and autonomy. Giperopeka leads to the fact that the child loses the opportunity to make their own decisions, overcome difficulties, and in difficult situations is helpless, hoping for help from adults. The most annoying thing that impacts giperopeki remain with a person for life and into adulthood, he will still be unable to without approval from Mom or Dad to overcome life's obstacles and make important decisions. Left without the support of those who so strongly took care of him as a child, a grown up child will be alone with their fears, in the confusion and disorientation. So think about the future child must be from the beginning. Love and is to supply your baby with all that will help him in his long and this hard way.

We continue to explore the interests of our audience. Today, we have conducted a survey among parents on such a subject – “In a nursery school you prefer to send their children?” State kindergarten, private kindergarten, a children’s home garden, I’m sitting at home with your child – here are answers have been proposed. Participated in the survey – 67 people. The answers were as follows: State Kindergarten 67.80% Private Kindergarten – 16.95% I’m sitting with a child at home – 11.86% Home day care – 3.39% As you can see the majority of parents prefer to send their children to conventional orchards. And the gap between private and municipal garden great! I decided to ask the parents why their views were as this way, and these are the answers received: Velemar Marov: – About the nursery that’s what I can say – unfortunately, I can not give to a private kindergarten, because it costs 7000 rubles a month, a lot of money. In addition, I have two children, and salaries of 10 000.

Marina: – In this city of private kindergartens is not in the city that barely hit and it was only three and a half years all went. So from the month of August we go to kindergarten. jPVmZ2zkVclcwKwf8RZsKFE3lEXmlaEB-Bow44Vh_NF7E7Qdp8UaIdhoQ9gE9iseERPcoDLMJ0UrRhJ7wJdnGwjNfMAHoLZ-NIx1hmgIb2WHLMI-x3Dyo9eXfsrRkNrK2_f1tuXZcjKek1uWYU_JCOOiAY8QIS1DFQpN5zmVXrt1Ddh18JxBnpl_Hgkoggk_10m-FQr0hKlmw5T71grgcsI8po3kkvOauIG4_2LKoK-etKKSQ61YbpY8WBnYUfHkO30’>BCD may find this interesting as well. Sitting at home with child already does, I go to work almost 4 years did not work, it’s too much. Child needs full communion with their peers, the fact that the playground near the house, is not enough … Anna: – Unfortunately, next to our house only muntsipalny kindergarten, and moreover, it cost us cheaply. So I choose the state nursery. Natalia Ryzhov: – About the kindergarten, I can say that I do not see any difference between the state (mean normal gardens with decent teachers) and private kindergartens.

Stay at home with a child – not an option – the child still has to get used to the children’s team. Nationality: – We like kindergarten “sign” it private, is in Moscow. Very good kindergarten. Look on the internet about him have a website. Sophia Krivosheeva: – And I do not have much choice, I can say about kindergarten. Because we have paid in the city of gardens virtually none. Sleeping Princess: – We gosudarstenny garden was about twenty meters and this feature has become crucial. We went there like this: breakfast at home, we come to the garden to nine in the morning, my daughter is playing, doing, walking, dinner, and then immediately go home. Me Such a system was very fond, and his daughter went with gusto. Tati: – Dear parents, who are looking for information about kindergarten, a good but not cheap. Council in Moscow like in a private garden “development”. We really enjoyed it. We continue to collect your opinions about the kindergarten visit our forum. Come to the forum kindergarten, always appreciate your messages and comments.